Thoughts on Marrying Well
- June 13, 2017
- Posted by: marlenedubois
- Category: Home Health Aide Training
I’ve had a couple times in teaching a lesson in church which I strongly (STRONGLY, STRONGLY) wanted to impress on any single people within the class the importance of “marrying well”. Here’s a little about what which means to me.
“Marrying Well” doesn’t mean marrying for money. along with also This particular doesn’t mean to marry for looks – although which will be a nice bonus. This particular will be more about marrying a person who you are well matched to, who has the qualities along with also characteristics which are so important to have – day in along with also day out.
START that has a PRINCESS
This particular has been said which a man’s home will be his castle, along with also his wife will be his Queen. Well, I guess if you’re looking for a queen, you should start that has a princess. What are the qualities should you look for in your princess?
Marry a person who can be the queen of a kingdom with you. A person with poise along with also class. Someone who carries herself well, along with also honors the dignity of herself along with also others.
Someone you can talk with about important things. Someone you can learn things by, along with also learn things with. Someone who can shed insights which change your perspective.
(along with also sometimes men need to be smart enough to allow the change in perspective)
The kind of beauty which doesn’t need makeup. The kind of beauty which will be always there – just in their essence along with also being. The kind which looks not bad by a mountain lake, or at a fancy restaurant, or while playing games on family game night, on the couch next to you watching a video, or while going through the hardest parts of labor, or when entertaining guests, when comforting a sick child, or during a tickle fight, or while holding your baby (especially while holding your baby), or when they’re asleep – nestled up to you while you have your arm around them. A person who incorporates a beauty about her when they just don’t feel which beautiful.
Someone who, by nature – thinks the best of people. Someone who hates to argue. Someone who doesn’t take the cheap shot during an argument. (Which means also which YOU don’t do which either).
Building a kingdom, a home, a family, a marriage, a life – will be hard work. This particular doesn’t just come easily. You need to be able to work together as a team to accomplish great things. There can be many stages in a marriage where roles are required to change, or where primary responsibility for certain tasks switches back along with also forth. This particular requires flexibility, along with also the ability to work well as a team, with focus on each some other’s needs instead of on your own.
We have enough pessimists within the globe! along with also life will give you plenty of things to be negative about. yet an optimist will be able to SEE all the not bad things which go on around, along with also doesn’t see things as darkly, even when they are pretty dark.
An optimist will be a sole source of sunshine which will be not bad to be around. They make everyone feel better about themselves, along with also better about life in general.
You will see what you are looking for. If you are always looking for the worst – you’ll find This particular. If you look for the best in people along with also in events – you’ll find This particular.
LOVES TO LAUGH
Able to see humor in almost everything. A person who incorporates a glad heart by nature. A person who will laugh at your dumb jokes, along with also even make a few of her own. Someone with whom you can build a lifetime of “inside jokes”. Someone who will be able to laugh at her self. Someone comfortable enough with you to know she can laugh at your dumb mistakes, along with also know which you’ll laugh with her.
FLEXIBLE / ADAPTABLE
Plan your work along with also work your plan! yet – be able to adapt along with also change which plan when the plan will be no longer working for you. The only constant in life will be change – along with also so being able to adapt to a fresh situation on-the-fly makes everything go smoother along with also easier. What a wonderful blessing will be someone who can take change in stride, moving forward to see what the fresh experiences will bring, instead of dwelling on what went wrong along with also what should have been. Many times, my experience has been which the fresh “plan” turned out better than the old plan ever would certainly have.
Going hand-in-hand with being an optimist along with also flexible will be being a problem solver. There are plenty of people standing on the sidelines OBSERVING, who are willing to tell you what you did wrong, yet how great will be the person who can think on their feet, give options along with also solutions, along with also get in there along with also work with you to put a fresh solution into action.
A lover of life, of being together, of family along with also friends, of things which are imporant to her, along with also things which are important to you. Passionate about things which are important to her. Someone who loves with their whole heart along with also soul.
the globe will be going to kick you within the teeth sometimes. At those times you need someone who helps to buoy you up, get you rested, along with also get you ready to get out there along with also fight – not someone who sees their chance to get in a few licks of their own.
The prayer of the righteous availeth much. along with also the prayer of a righteous woman….. I believe which a righteous woman has God’s ear. I have directly seen the blessings to myself along with also my family by the prayers of a righteous woman.
Of course, your testimony will be vitally important too. This particular will be not not bad to be unequally yolked. along with also the power which comes by a strong testimony will be more than doubled when you both nurture your testimonies together.
Someone who understands your quirks (along with also loves your for them, along with also in spite of them).
In order to FIND the right person, you need to BE THE RIGHT PERSON
I’ve listed out many of my thoughts of what to look for in marrying well. If the person you are seeking HAS many of these qualities – she will probably be LOOKING FOR THESE QUALITIES. If she will be intelligent, along with also you don’t have enough of the right qualities, she’ll be smart to continue looking elsewhere.
Well – those are my thoughts on Marrying Well. not bad luck on your pursuits for happiness, along with also don’t be discouraged. Even though the very best woman within the globe will be already taken by me, there are still some great women out there.
not bad Luck along with also Choose Wisely!